We love books, but receiving one as a gift is an entirely different matter. Often it can seem impersonal, making the recipient believe that his/her friend, family member, or significant other expended no more effort than walking into a bookstore and snatching up the closest title on the New and Popular table. It takes a very special set of circumstances to make a book gift truly exceptional, one that supersedes all other gift options. Here’s our advice:
Figure out his/her tastes.
You wouldn’t buy an unathletic friend workout gear, or flashy jewelry or clothes for a significant other whose tastes run more minimal. Similarly, you have to consider what your recipient would actually like to read, not just what you want him/her to read. Is he your horror-movie buddy? Recreate that experience with a page-turning thriller like the latest Lisbeth Salander novel The Girl In The Spider’s Web. Does she work a drudging office job? That’s an entire sub genre! Try gifting her The Beautiful Bureaucrat.
Do your research!
Did she love Gone Girl or Station Eleven? You’ve got resources like Read It Forward and GoodReads to find the new and classic books that will hit those same emotional and thematic beats. There are readers everywhere eager to share what they loved (and didn’t), so consider them a litmus test.
Make it personal.
The exception to the rule about taste is if there’s a book you truly believe your recipient—especially if it’s your significant other—would appreciate. If it is outside of his/her comfort zone, include a note—as a card or written into the book itself—explaining your choice. If that’s intimidating, peruse a bookstore’s Staff Picks table instead.
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Make it special.
You’ve found a book that seems like a perfect fit for your friend, beloved, or sibling, but you’re unsure if she or he has read it before. But if you hit the jackpot and locate a first edition or a signed copy, that special status outweighs any potential repetition.
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