Reader’s Guide for A Life Apart by L.Y. Marlow

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Life Apart

From the author of Color Me Butterfly comes A Life Apart: a poignant novel about a decades-long love affair and the complicated and unbreakable ties between two families that live worlds apart.

Discussion Questions

1. The introduction opens with “You may think I got no right to be here, no right at all.” What do you think was meant by these words and what significance did it have on the story?

2. The book begins with the bombing of Pearl Harbor. What did you think about how Morris’s life was saved by Robert, the young black sailor, and how this incident changed the course of Morris’s life?

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3. What did you think about Morris and Bernard’s friendship, and the way the black soldiers were segregated from the white soldiers, and the impact it had on Morris and Bernard’s relationship?

4. When Morris first meets Beatrice, why do you think there was such a profound connection between them, especially given a time when interracial relationships were frowned upon?

5. What did you think about the letters between Morris and Beatrice and Morris and Agnes? Do you think they revealed what he felt about both women? Why do you think the author chose to use the letters?

6. How culpable was Beatrice in the pain that Morris caused Agnes? How much do you think she blamed herself for the hurt they caused Agnes and their daughters?

7. Why do you think Agnes was so enamored with portraying the perfect family? Do you think she knew about the love affair between Morris and Beatrice?

8. When Morris brings Sam and Sadie Mae to meet Agnes and Emma for the first time, do you think Agnes was right to throw them out of her home and heart?

9. What did you think about the relationship between Sam and Sadie Mae and how they viewed their differences, especially Sadie Mae?

10. Why do you think Beatrice agreed to help Morris take care of Agnes? Do you think that this was wrong for her to do?

11. What did you think about the friendship between Agnes and Beatrice? And the power of forgiveness?

12. Do you think you could forgive a person given the same circumstances?

13. Do you think Morris regretted his choices that ultimately hurt two families? If so, how did he portray his remorse?

14. How does the book portray interracial love affairs, which were taboo during that time? Were there any scenes in the book that resonated most with you?

15. How do you think blended families affect our society today? Do you think it’s more accepted today, then it was during that time?

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L.Y. MARLOW is the founder of Saving Promise, a national domestic violence prevention organization that is inspired by her family’s story—as told in her award-winning novel Color Me Butterfly—and her granddaughter, a little girl named Promise. As an avid reader and poet, L.Y. courageously stepped away from a prosperous career in corporate America to pursue her lifelong passion to write which later led to discovering her love for community service. When she’s not saving Promise and writing, she can be found traversing the bookstores, the arts, and anything cultured that enlivens her soul. Visit the author on Twitter @lymarlow.

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KIRA WALTON has been stalking books all her life as a college English teacher, bookseller, book club consultant, author, and editor.

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