A Gate at the Stairs
A working couple employ a student, Tassie, as an unofficial part-time nanny for the child they want to adopt, although neither parent checks Tassie’s references. She forms a strong bond with the child, and when that relationship is threatened, her reaction may be familiar to other nannies in a similar position: “Perhaps I was clinging to something that wasn’t mine to love. Perhaps I was treasuring love that wasn’t mine to treasure.”
Such a Fun Age
This Reese Book Club pick is a page-turning story about race and privilege, set around a young Black babysitter and her well-intentioned employer. Emira Tucker is watching Alix Chamberlain’s toddler and accused of kidnapping—just for being at a supermarket. A crowd gathers and the encounter is filmed. Emira is furious, and Alix resolves to make things right, but soon makes everything even more complicated.
The Perfect Nanny
This nanny is Louise: hard-working and multitalented. She’s “simultaneously invisible and indispensable…discreet and powerful,” and the family rapidly comes to rely on her. But they’re oblivious to the pressures in her private life, and to her growing emotional dependence on them—she tells herself “she is theirs and they are hers.” We know from the first line that “the baby is dead”; the rest of the book shows us the lead-up to this horrific crime.
Friends and Strangers
J. Courtney Sullivan
After she and her husband relocate upstate, Elisabeth is fiercely homesick for New York City. Not that she’s adjusting well to any of it: motherhood, small town life, being away from her friends. When Elisabeth hires Sam to babysit her son, Gil, she starts to feel a bit better and begins to feel a kinship with Sam, who attends the women’s college and is an aspiring artist. But when both women start sticking their noses where they don’t belong, things go south, and fast.
Woman No. 17
The live-in nanny here is Esther, a student and artist who calls herself “S.” She’s hired to care for a separated couple’s 2-year-old son, and she pursues her own artistic project in her free time. The father eventually checks her references after the mother fails to, but these aren’t the sort of checks that will show up the unusual life decisions that S has recently made. The assumptions the family have made about her turn out to be all wrong.
A powerful, internationally bestselling book, this is set in Mississippi in the early 1960s. Aibileen is an African American maid, mourning the death of her own grownup son while looking after her seventeenth white child. She takes risks to raise awareness of the appalling inequalities in her community, while protecting the children in her care as well as she can. “All the babies I tend to, I count as my own,” she says. Her little charge tells her: “Aibee, you’re my real mama.”
The Au Pair
The au pair in my own novel is Laura, a troubled 18-year-old who moves into an English country house to look after a wealthy couple’s 3-year-old son. She plays a central role in the family for 11 months and is privy to their darkest secrets, but ultimately, as a mere “mother’s help,” she can be dismissed and banished without notice. In fiction as in real life, the position of a nanny or an au pair is both a privileged and a precarious one.
Childcare is a highly emotive subject. Employing a stranger to look after your child in your own home is an especially daunting prospect for any parent. There are a million nannies and around 17,500 au pairs working in the United States, and while they often have heartwarming and wonderful relationships with their employers, we all know this isn’t always the case.
Nannies make great characters in fiction precisely because they’re outsiders who’ve been invited into the heart of a family. Their experiences fascinate us, and the differences between employer and employee can also highlight issues of race, class, immigration, and economic imbalance.
Of course, fiction likes to look at what happens when relationships don’t run smoothly. I’ve gathered together seven books on the subject, ranging from a story of terrible misdeeds by a nanny to tales of disinterested parents where the nanny is a vital provider of emotional support to their child. If childcare is something you’re particularly sensitive about, I’d advise reading some of these with caution!
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